Thursday, December 25, 2014
#PrayForPantaiTimur 2014
Wednesday, December 17, 2014
Kahwin Muda? Rasional or not?
Assalamualaikum.
I never against towards couples who kahwin muda. Never. Its halal and good decisions ever. I read alots of this. And I do respect who kahwin muda based on agama, based on elak maksiat, and married while they're student (universiti not school). But now, its like trends, bukan trends yang sihat but trends kahwin underage - means, kau tak habis sekolah lagi but sibuk nak kahwin.
No, aku tak menentang but logically, they're underage and they can't make rasional decisions or thought. How can they be in a marriage, the hardest phase in life ever. Yes aku bersyukur sangat diorang di kahwin kan untuk elak berlaku zina, pembuangan bayi, etc but when someone who haven't learn much about life then get into married life, for sure semua orang boleh fikir pasal akibatnya. Like cerai muda, and if they've child while they're still teenagers, who will be raising those baby?
Whatever decision akan ada bad circumstances. But fikirlah logic untuk masa depan that couple. Kau kahwin and kau drop out from school. How u going to survive and to give all nafkah thingy to your wife and maybe kids. Yes jodoh tu ditangan Allah, but if kau tak terhegeh hegeh, benda tak kan jadi. Same dengan rezeki tu dari Allah, if kau tak usaha Allah nak turunkan ke RM2k bawah bantal kau?
Ok, kau nak nikah jugak dengan alasan elak maksiat. Fine, but habiskan spm. Sekarang bukan macam zaman dulu, dengan sijil darjah 3 kau boleh get a better job. Spm lah serendah rendah sijil dik. Kau nak kawen ke, nak hape ke, habiskan sekolah. Atleast ur parents still can tanggung sampai habis sekolah.
Sekarang tengah viral pasal budak 15tahun (suami) kawen dengan budak 17tahun (bini). And sang suami berenti sekolah dengan alasan kena kerja tanggung bini. Thats why aku panjang lebar terangkan kat atas tu. Matlamat tak menghalalkan cara. Siap lari rumah sebelum kahwin. If they're rasional, could they do that? Then after this bila problems coming, ko nak lari ke mana? Tinggal laki? Tinggal bini?
Plus the things yang paling buat aku berbulu, benda jadi trends. Maksudnya, bila story tu jadi viral, budakbudak sebaya diorang pun akan terikut. Bercinta bagai nak rak then lepas PT3 terus nak kawen. Budak sebaya diorang ni kan memang cepat terpengaruh. So this trends sooo unhealthy !
I'm not going to comment about they parent, how they can makes decision because I know they condition will be like 'ditelan mati mak, diluah mati bapak. Am write this just for change our people views/ideas about this issue.
Monday, December 15, 2014
Ikh'1
#QishNikman
Assalamualaikum.
Bismillah. This post will be an emotional post ever. The major things that I hate be in a relationship that, I'll be losing them. Tak kira la love relay ke, friendship ke. Cerita dah basi pun, but untuk mententeramkan hati sendiri, tahan dulu cerita ni.
My crime patner is married !
Taktau nak act happy or teruja or sedih when she told me that she will be someone's wifey. Like she said, both of us bukan stay kl lagi, so tak rasa sangat. Memang ah tapiiiii... Sedih but deep in my heart, I will always pray for ur happiness.
I know her while both of us study in Uniten. June 2010. Muka bapak kerek plus ada lah issues yang makes me tak berkenan dengan minah ni. Propa sangat issue tu ok! Then macam biasa la, girlssss kan. Gaduh baik gaduh baik gaduh baik sampai lah ke last sem.
Habis belajar terpisah jap then she move to kl while am already in kl like half year. Start balik lah crimes story. Then dua2 berenti kerja and balik kampung masing2 and suddenly now she's married!
Nok, I know am not the best person u ever met, am not the great friend u ever had and I know how annoying I could be sometimes but I will always here and u will always in my heart. Thanks for everything, emo aku, marah aku, bebel aku, jahat aku, mulut aku yang semua kau tahan.
Selamat Pengantin Basi, nok.
May Allah blessed your marriage and live happily ever after with Nikman. Jangan gegaduh, jangan memarah, jangan nenangis. Sabar with all those rintangan yang dah or sedang or bakal.
Sunday, November 23, 2014
Rewind
Friday, November 21, 2014
Demam kekura ke lelabi?
Assalamualaikum.
Last post macam tak sesuai je nak bagitau that am not feeling well since last Sunday. Balik dari Melaka terus tak sedap badan, (later I share what am doing in Melaka, cant wait), then Monday kena ear infection, then suruh my brother belikan meds kat farmasi, later ok. Then esoknya, which is Tuesday, light fever.
Ngade ngade sangat ok. Mentang2 lah Mak dah balik. Then next day, running nose. Sangat tak menentu kondisi badan ni uols. And currently today Thursday/Friday ni, still flu, and macam bengkak je kat tekak, dunno if tonsillitis dah berbunga disitu.
But with all that, body temperature still normal. Sejuk macam biasa. Plus musim hujan kan, so memang nyaman sangat. Please la badan, sihat cecepat, nextweek nak travel jauh, if cuaca ok lah. And the same week, nak g holiday with fam. Aminnnn
Laterss
Crush
Thursday, November 20, 2014
Cik Anne or Aunty Anne or Cik Ain ?
Assalamualaikum.
Its been a while. Bukan malas eh, laptop problem. Dhla password prob tak settle lagi, tup tup charger pulak buat hal. Haihhh
Ni bukan nak cite laptop eh, nak cite kite jadi makcik lagiiiii. No, not from my family members but from my exclassmate. Wahhh. Dulu kemain duk gonjol-gonjol (gila-gila) bersama tup tup kawen tup tup jadi papa/mama, dedi/mami.
Giler ko tak excited !
Tahniah new papa, Rais Abu.
notatumit : For sure this post tonganglanggang sebab update from my phone.
Sunday, October 26, 2014
Exclusive
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
Asked Me, Ringgggg
- LA Love by Fergie
2. What is your current wallpaper?
- Tess Holliday
- I owned my pics not phone pics. HAHA
4. What was the last picture you took?
- Teddy's Family. Doing my spring cleaning and they seem cute (:
- RM0.00 CIMB: Prepaid Reload RM30 by KAHAR BIN MO to 013943**** on 30 Nov 2014 16:12:08. - Bhahah was pau my dad for prepaid topup. Pity me !
6. How many contacts do you have on your phone?
- 279 contacts.
8. Who was the last person you spoke to on your cell phone?
- Kay
9. What service do you have?
- Celcom & Maxis
10. At this very moment, how many bars do you have for your service?
- 4. Full
11. Who’s on your speed dial numbers?
- I don't have any speed dial number.
12. Do you have voicemail?
- No.
13. How many contacts that start with the letter J do you have and who are they?
- 6. Jamal, Jannah Masri, Jeannie, Joe, Johari & Jude. They're my friends
14. Who do you call the most?
- My mum
15. How many text messages do you get a month?
- Not much, normally from telco services
16. Can you send pictures?
- Yes.
17. What are the first 2 digits to your number?
- 94
18. Go to your sent texts…what does the first one say?
19. What about the 10th?
20. Who’s the last person that you called?
- Dayu
22. Last person that texted you?
- Celcom. Whatsapp : Balqis
23. Last person you added to your contacts?
- Cant remember thou. Jamal kot because he keep changing his phone num
24. Go down to your 5th contact, who is it?
- Albert Chia, agent for my trip to USS Singapore
25. Wanna give out your number?
- Never !
Done this post by March 10, 2015. New post on old draft. Banyak sangat draft (:
Monday, October 6, 2014
Homesick
Dah start rindu membawak ke demam.
" Home is not a home when Mak not around "
Saturday, September 20, 2014
Haji 1435H
Assalamualaikum.
Thursday, June 19, 2014
#Tips : Move On after Break Up
Monday, June 16, 2014
Friday, June 13, 2014
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
Masih.
Notatumit : Ini bukan jodoh, ini suratan.
Friday, May 23, 2014
Clingy
How ya doin? Am great. Melalui harihari yang boring. Giler tak boring. I never rest lepas habis study, continue with internship then terus kerja menggila.
Duduk saje takde buat apa is really killin me. Damn.
Plus bila takde buat apa, mula la emosi nak bergelora. Moody plus emotional. Merepek repek punya perangai. Normal ah. Unstable emotions.
Easy word : mengade ngade.
Sorry b. Its been more than two weeks. See ya shortly. Will be back to normal emotion. Maybe. Lalalala.
Sunday, May 18, 2014
Update 2014r0518
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
Decide. Decision. Deal.
Friday, April 18, 2014
Hikmah
Saturday, April 5, 2014
B
Monday, March 3, 2014
Wake Up, Ain!
Sometimes I'm lost, from realistic mind, from reality.
----Later until 3 days? You'll never know. A side-chick don't need explanation, they just want you there. A side-chick don't care if you have another chicks, they only be jealous of your 1st lady. A side-chick not a clingy type, because she the one who sharing someone's.
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
Reverse Psychology or Reverse Motivation?
See ya later. XOXO
Sunday, February 9, 2014
UPDATED 2014
"I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerfull stuff." - Jon Katz