Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Reverse Psychology or Reverse Motivation?


Boring topic but still can related to my current life condition. Actually aku memang minat part part Psychology nih. Since Uni kot, if I'm not mistaken 3rd sem ada Psychology subject. Plus lecturer best and I got A kot. Bukan senang nak dapat A! That's why lah aku appreciate. HAHA.

Back to the topic, amende RP ni kan?

" Reverse psychology: a persuasion technique involving the false advocacy of a belief or behavior contrary to the belief or behavior which is actually being advocated. This technique relies on the psychological phenomenon of reactance, in which a person has a negative emotional response in reaction to being persuaded, and thus chooses the option which is being advocated against. "

Maksudnya something yang takboleh do in direct way, kena pusingpusing. Selalunya Marketer selalu guna formula ni. Simple example ; Aku nak mintak mak aku RM 500 untuk beli baju, mak aku tak bagi, then aku cakaplah bagus baju tu, boleh nampak aku kurus & boleh tahan 8 tahun. Nampak macam nonsense tapi if mak aku percaya then RP aku berjaya lah kan :)

So, macamane connection between my life and this RP was, aku stress sangat kat office. Hari hari bangun pagi ada feel malas sangat, nak MC lah but my RP was breakfast. Yeah, sebab ada satu makcik tu jual breakfast yang sangat umphh! So I motivated my self by "Pergilah kerja, nanti boleh beli kuey tiaw and karipap Makcik tu".

It's WORK!

It's also a motivation. Percaya atau tidak, sekarang aku jarang makan malam. Bukan sebab nak diet (grrrr) but bila dah balik, malas nak masak, malas nak tapau, malas segalagalanya lah! So the motivation was same, " tahanlah perut, esok kita makan breakfast Makcik tu ye " :) 

Funny right, psychology sometimes we can predict but we can't control (AinKahar, 2014)

See ya later. XOXO

Sunday, February 9, 2014



It's been a long time. Yeah, been busy with life. Biasa lah ada naik turunnya, ye dak? I'm still struggling here at Damansara city. Tercunggap cunggap. Tercari cari. Plan to leaving this city, but the times haven't comes yet.

I have so much things to write up here, but dunno how to start.

It's not so much fun like you wish when you still in school or college, it's so damn stress. I'm not types who clingy, who complaint about it, but Alhamdulillah, day by day I got strong iman to continue what I have been starts. Aku bersyukur dengan apa yang ada sekarang, but Insyallah, will move on to new life soon or later. Life should be challenging, abi?

They being the greatest creation to me. Supportive--. Seriously, I'm not really a family-person when I was young (now, still young), but now I realize that they are everything. EVERYTHING

"I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerfull stuff." - Jon Katz

It's already 6 month, but still have no direction.


That's all for now maybe, will write back when I feel like. Me myself know how much I miss write and how it's makes me calm and cure.

Later, XOXO.
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