Reverse Psychology or Reverse Motivation?

Salam.

Boring topic but still can related to my current life condition. Actually aku memang minat part part Psychology nih. Since Uni kot, if I'm not mistaken 3rd sem ada Psychology subject. Plus lecturer best and I got A kot. Bukan senang nak dapat A! That's why lah aku appreciate. HAHA.

Back to the topic, amende RP ni kan?

" Reverse psychology: a persuasion technique involving the false advocacy of a belief or behavior contrary to the belief or behavior which is actually being advocated. This technique relies on the psychological phenomenon of reactance, in which a person has a negative emotional response in reaction to being persuaded, and thus chooses the option which is being advocated against. "

Maksudnya something yang takboleh do in direct way, kena pusingpusing. Selalunya Marketer selalu guna formula ni. Simple example ; Aku nak mintak mak aku RM 500 untuk beli baju, mak aku tak bagi, then aku cakaplah bagus baju tu, boleh nampak aku kurus & boleh tahan 8 tahun. Nampak macam nonsense tapi if mak aku percaya then RP aku berjaya lah kan :)

So, macamane connection between my life and this RP was, aku stress sangat kat office. Hari hari bangun pagi ada feel malas sangat, nak MC lah but my RP was breakfast. Yeah, sebab ada satu makcik tu jual breakfast yang sangat umphh! So I motivated my self by "Pergilah kerja, nanti boleh beli kuey tiaw and karipap Makcik tu".

It's WORK!

It's also a motivation. Percaya atau tidak, sekarang aku jarang makan malam. Bukan sebab nak diet (grrrr) but bila dah balik, malas nak masak, malas nak tapau, malas segalagalanya lah! So the motivation was same, " tahanlah perut, esok kita makan breakfast Makcik tu ye " :) 

Funny right, psychology sometimes we can predict but we can't control (AinKahar, 2014)

See ya later. XOXO

UPDATED 2014

Salam.

It's been a long time. Yeah, been busy with life. Biasa lah ada naik turunnya, ye dak? I'm still struggling here at Damansara city. Tercunggap cunggap. Tercari cari. Plan to leaving this city, but the times haven't comes yet.

I have so much things to write up here, but dunno how to start.

WORK--

It's not so much fun like you wish when you still in school or college, it's so damn stress. I'm not types who clingy, who complaint about it, but Alhamdulillah, day by day I got strong iman to continue what I have been starts. Aku bersyukur dengan apa yang ada sekarang, but Insyallah, will move on to new life soon or later. Life should be challenging, abi?

FAMILY--

They being the greatest creation to me. Supportive--. Seriously, I'm not really a family-person when I was young (now, still young), but now I realize that they are everything. EVERYTHING

FRIENDS--
"I think if I've learned anything about friendship, it's to hang in, stay connected, fight for them, and let them fight for you. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith together. Powerfull stuff." - Jon Katz

LOVE--

It's already 6 month, but still have no direction.

EMOTIONAL--

Distracted.

That's all for now maybe, will write back when I feel like. Me myself know how much I miss write and how it's makes me calm and cure.

Later, XOXO.

  

Fast

Salam.

Fast post yer. Without double check, without using brain at all.

Sumpah,

Dulu aku duk benci bila orang quotes 'Cinta itu buta', dalam hati plus mulut, apesal pulak. Xde otak ke apa buat statement macam tu. Boleh avoid kan, mengada-ngada je lebih. Danggggg, but now, damn! I'm being tied with my old words, telan hamek kau!

It's uncontrollable.

Unplanned, unexpected, etc.

Memang boleh elak der, tapi sekali kau dah terjatuh dalam lubang dalam, selain kau cuba sedaya upaya, sekuat mungkin and finally boleh punya. Tapi as we know, its too hard babe. Kekadang kita haus gila pun, setakat nak pergi dapur bukak peti pun malas gila.

But, bila kena macam ni bukan kira malas tak malas der, perghh nak usaha tu kira macam luah mati mak, telan mati bapak. Kau luah pun kau sakit, kau telan pun kau merana and finally ko decide nak kemamkan aje. Tak pikir panjang kan, asal boleh.

Sakit oi, sakit. 

Steferesfes

Assalamualaikum. Hey bloggers,

Arini update dari office thru hp. Berkecamuklah life lately ni. Damn hates this feeling. Bikin panas 24/7 woihh.

Life ; Not so well

Work ; Stressful

Housemates ; Ignored

Soulmate ; Away

Money ; Slender

Ahhhh conclusion nye stress lah. Take care you guys!

Someone

Assalamualaikum. Hi peeps,

WARNING : THIS POST WILL BE SUCH AN ANNOYING POST!

I do be friend will all kind of people. Sometimes I fall in love but not with someone who I be friend with. Rarely I'll will in love with my friends, macam pelik pulak. Kawan kawan then jatuh cinta. Tapi ada je kan, kalau dah jodoh tak kemana. But still selagi boleh elak, I will not fall in love with someone who I know well. Friends just like cloth that you like, you will wear it all the time but you will not bring it to bed. Paham tak? It's okay, biar aku faham sendiri.

I was seen as tough, strong, brave but actually I was someone who easy fall in love. But unfortunately, I'm also someone who can easy break the feelings. Mudah jatuh cinta dan mudah untuk melupakan. That's why I'm seen as strong without crying-drama-thingy.

The latest, I've be friend with some-three-one (read : seorang dua), 1st guy is someone boyfie, 2nd guy is single but I can't live with him in future and 3rd guy was someone I know back days. All this three guys be friend with me as who I am, back days, now days, and in the future (maybe). Aku bukan tamak, but ada pepatah kan, berkawan biar seribu. After the 4years relationship doesn't make out, I just can't in love in this time being.

This 1st guy is the most closest guy with me. We doing all the craziest thing together, we try all the good food together, we go thru hard time together, unfortunately, for me and for him, he has girlfriend. I will not let him let go that girl because of me, because I know someday, he will do that to me. So, we just declare our relationship as 'friends'.

I miss the Ipoh trip, I miss the Penang trip, I miss the Genting trip at 3am and will miss the Cameron trip at 12pm. This is all the craziest thing we have go thru. Driving to somewhere place like no one business, like-we-dont-have-to-work-tomorrow. I just missed it.

Mingle with all your family members, without plan, is awesome. Be the one who can lend the arms when you crying of your father's death. I dunno either me or your girlfriend be the one who selfish. I just dunno.

notatumit : Now you guys can see how biases I am with these three guys. Sayang tak semestinya bersatu, kan?